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What if I can’t make my child support payments?

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On behalf of Laughlin & Company Lawyers Mediators posted in Child Support on Tuesday, July 28, 2015.

While there are some parents who balk at paying child support just because they don’t agree with the amount or don’t want their ex to have the money, there are others who understand that child support goes to provide for the children but struggle to make their payments. Sometimes, a rough patch can turn into a bigger issues, and when there is an undue hardship, the courts may be able to reduce the child support amount.

It’s important to understand that proving undue hardship can be very difficult. If you are going to be paying child support and do not believe you will be able to pay the standard amount for your case, you will need to provide proof as to why. This includes providing the courts with all income streams, including any incomes brought in by others in the household, such as a partner or new spouse. Investment, business and dividend incomes must also be reported to the courts.

The court generally only considers the undue hardship a possibility in certain situations. These include if you have excessive amounts of debt, are making child support payments for other children not related to this case or are paying money to support someone in your household who is sick or disabled. The standard of living for both your and your ex’s households will also be considered as factors.

If you do not think you will be able to make your child support payments, a family lawyer can help you understand whether you have any options available and how to petition the courts for a change.

Source: Legal Services Society, “Child Support,” accessed July 28, 2015

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Marriage contract: Why do I need a lawyer?

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On behalf of Laughlin & Company Lawyers Mediators posted in Division of Property on Friday, July 24, 2015.

A marriage contract can help make the property division aspect of a divorce quicker and easier, but it needs to be done correctly for you to get the full benefits. A marriage contract lets the two parties decide how they will divide their assets and deal with other financial matters in the event of a divorce.

Since drafting and signing a marriage contract usually comes into discussion well before either party is considering a separation, it’s common for couples to think that they don’t need to consult a lawyer. However, a lawyer can help in both the development of the marriage contract and the execution, if needed, later on.

For a marriage contract to be valid, it’s very important that the terms follow the guidelines of the law and do not include anything illegal or what the courts might deem as superfluous. In these situations, the court may find that the marriage contract is not legally valid and set the entire contract aside. Talking with a lawyer as you draft the marriage contract and decide what to include can help ensure that you don’t mistakenly include something you shouldn’t, which could cause problems down the road.

A lawyer can also talk with you about your particular needs and situation and help you ensure that the marriage contract protects your interests and rights. It’s common for a marriage contract to have to go through a few rounds of revisions as the particulars are ironed out. In most cases, it is best for both parties to have separate legal counsel review the proposed marriage contract before signing.

Source: FindLaw, “Marriage contracts,” accessed July 24, 2015

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Actress claims finances kept her from seeing children

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On behalf of Laughlin & Company Lawyers Mediators posted in Child Custody on Thursday, July 16, 2015.

International custody battles can be tricky. Even with today’s technology that allows for talking, texting and even video conferencing with parents who live far away, maintaining parental bonds and staying actively involved in a child’s life is difficult from a distance. It is very common for one or even both parties to be unhappy with an international custody arrangement, as it often involves one parent keeping the children for most of the year and the other parent getting the children for weeks at a time in the summers or during school holidays.

However, another common issue in these disputes is money. Traveling abroad can be very expensive, even for those with above average means, and actress Kelly Rutherford has been arguing in her ongoing custody dispute with her German-born ex. Rutherford’s children are currently in the middle of the couple’s international custody dispute that has been highly publicized over the last few years.

The actress most recently told a judge that one of the major issues with the children living abroad in Monaco with their father was that she could not afford to travel frequently to visit them. Rutherford testitifed that when the order was first put in place, she was flying over to see the children approximately once a month. As time passed, she was not able to afford to have visits as frequently. The actress claimed she was also not able to work as much because of the frequent traveling and filed for bankruptcy in 2013.

Whether you are faced with the possibility of having to travel overseas to visit your children or have been dealing with a current international custody order that isn’t working anymore, a lawyer who deals with family law issues can help you get a better understanding of your options and best choices moving forward.

Source: Global News, “Actress Kelly Rutherford testifies at custody hearing,” Anthony McCartney, July 10, 2015

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Resolve your family law issues using mediation

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On behalf of Laughlin & Company Lawyers Mediators posted in Divorce Mediation on Thursday, July 9, 2015.

In our previous blog post, we discussed how mediation can help you to work out family law issues. This can be a very effective tool in family law cases because it takes the decision making away from the court and places it with you and your ex. This can help you and your ex to work together in a way that allows you to compromise to get what you want.

In family law cases, mediation is helpful for a variety of issues. We can help you to get property divided using mediation. When you do this, you have to decide what property is important to you and what property you are willing to let go. We can discuss your goals with you so that you can have an idea of what to do.

We can also help you with child custody matters. Again, you have to decide what you are willing to compromise on and what matters you wish to hold firm to. You and your ex can use the help of the mediator to work things out.

It is vital that you ensure your interests are protected throughout the mediation process. We can help you to learn how to do this. We can help you learn how to get a settlement that puts the matters close to your heart at the forefront of the agreement.

If for some reason you are unable to come to an agreement through mediation, your case would then move to court. That, however, will likely take longer and cost more than going through mediation.

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Mediation might help to speed up the divorce process

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On behalf of Laughlin & Company Lawyers Mediators posted in Divorce Mediation on Wednesday, July 1, 2015.

When you and your ex are ready to call it quits, you likely want to get through the entire process of severing ties quickly. That means going through the divorce process as quickly as possible. While not all divorces are going to happen quickly, there are some ways that you and your ex can speed up the process a bit.

It is important for everyone to know that unless there are allegations of abuse or adultery, getting a divorce means separating for at least a year. If there is an allegation of abuse or adultery, the divorce might be able to be finalized a little faster, but only if the abuse or adultery isn’t contested by the spouse facing the accusation.

You will have to apply for the divorce and go through the process that applies to your case. It is vital that you and your ex work together to determine the terms of the divorce. This can be done through meditation. Having an uncontested divorce is a lot faster than having to go through the court to determine the terms of the divorce.

Even if you and your ex agree on the terms of the divorce, it can take up to six months for the court to receive the application and review it. Once the order for your divorce has been issued, you still have to wait 30 days before you can get a Certificate of Divorce.

While the process for divorcing does take time, being able to work with your ex about the terms is usually beneficial. Divorce mediation allows you to come up with terms that you and your ex agree upon, which means the court won’t have to figure it all out.

Source: FindLaw Canada, “Five steps to a quickie divorce,” accessed July 01, 2015

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